{"id":1175395,"date":"2025-12-19T10:02:00","date_gmt":"2025-12-19T15:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/?p=1175395"},"modified":"2025-12-16T08:43:10","modified_gmt":"2025-12-16T13:43:10","slug":"using-1-corinthians-134-7-to-learn-how-to-love-like-god","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/karin-hadadan\/2025\/12\/using-1-corinthians-134-7-to-learn-how-to-love-like-god\/","title":{"rendered":"Using 1 Corinthians 13:4\u20137 To Learn How To Love Like God"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"is-style-introduction\">The true north star of unconditional love is found in how God loves each of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.<\/p><cite><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>1 Corinthians 13:4-7<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/cite><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>This passage is not merely an articulation of what authentic love is and isn&#8217;t\u2014it provides a measuring stick for our relationships and our hearts toward others, including ourselves. Our cultural misunderstandings about love have diverted us from God&#8217;s true nature. We expect to receive as much as we give. We equate possessiveness or jealousy with passionate devotion. We believe true love means never experiencing conflict, maintaining constant happiness, or having our needs anticipated without communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"682\" width=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?w=850\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1167472\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.5018082433812772;width:688px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=384,256 384w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=640,427 640w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=768,512 768w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=1024,682 1024w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=1536,1024 1536w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=1920,1280 1920w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=1140,760 1140w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/letgotrustgodRebeccaSimon.jpg?resize=1152,768 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">For more insights + devotionals, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\">check out works by Rebecca Simon.<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet the selfless nature of authentic love lies in its beautiful duality\u2014it is both strong (bearing, enduring) and vulnerable (believing, hoping). Within this honest dichotomy, love expresses itself through both action and restraint, through giving and receiving with grace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"1598\" width=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg?w=850\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1175391\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.6410331946784817;width:470px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg 1302w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg?resize=384,599 384w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg?resize=640,999 640w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg?resize=768,1199 768w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg?resize=1024,1598 1024w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg?resize=984,1536 984w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screenshot-2025-12-16-at-6.35.37-AM.jpg?resize=1140,1779 1140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">For more ways to connect with God&#8217;s word daily, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\">check out books by Rebecca Simon.<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When we challenge our self-centered tendencies and cultural misconceptions, we arrive at a profound truth\u2014this passage articulates not only the nature of love itself but also the very character of God. Since God is love, and His Spirit dwells within believers, the resources to love authentically are already available to us. As we measure our relationships against this divine standard, we transform the energy, dynamics, and depth of our connections with everyone around us, reflecting God&#8217;s perfect love to an imperfect world.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The true north star of unconditional love is found in how God loves each of us. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":161774534,"featured_media":1175396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"thoughtcatalog_call_to_action":"","tc_post_redirect":"","thoughtcatalog_is_sponsored_content":"0","footnotes":""},"categories":[603230929],"tags":[],"anchortext":[],"posttemplate":[],"adcampaign":[],"coauthors":[603230679],"class_list":["post-1175395","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-spirituality"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/pexels-leticia-alvares-1805702-33359342.jpg","author_meta":null,"photo_credit":null,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1175395","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/161774534"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1175395"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1175395\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1175397,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1175395\/revisions\/1175397"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1175396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1175395"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1175395"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1175395"},{"taxonomy":"anchortext","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/anchortext?post=1175395"},{"taxonomy":"posttemplate","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posttemplate?post=1175395"},{"taxonomy":"adcampaign","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/adcampaign?post=1175395"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=1175395"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}