{"id":1176725,"date":"2025-12-20T14:30:25","date_gmt":"2025-12-20T19:30:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/?p=1176725"},"modified":"2025-12-17T14:35:21","modified_gmt":"2025-12-17T19:35:21","slug":"if-you-dont-talk-to-god-daily-dont-be-surprised-if-he-feels-distant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/stella-cereus\/2025\/12\/if-you-dont-talk-to-god-daily-dont-be-surprised-if-he-feels-distant\/","title":{"rendered":"If You Don\u2019t Talk To God Daily, Don\u2019t Be Surprised If He Feels Distant"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"is-style-introduction\">Small habits can create distance between you and God without you realizing it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here, with a hat tip for the idea\/structure to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DFar8bWRXi2\/?hl=en\">@pdxruvim<\/a>, I&#8217;ll highlight ten subtle ways this happens, and connect them to scripture verses for further study.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"682\" width=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?w=850\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1173115\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.5018082433812772;width:664px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=384,256 384w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=640,427 640w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=768,512 768w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=1024,682 1024w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=1536,1024 1536w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=1920,1280 1920w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=1140,760 1140w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/RebeccaSImonBooksLetGoTrustGodTrustingGodEveryDay.jpg?resize=1152,768 1152w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\">Looking for a hope-filled holiday gift? Check out books by Rebecca Simon.<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"neglecting-prayer\">Forgetting Prayer<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Pray without ceasing.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 1 Thessalonians 5:17<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you stop communicating with God, your connection to Him weakens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"avoiding-scripture\">Avoiding Scripture <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Psalm 119:105<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Without regular time in God\u2019s Word, it\u2019s easy to lose focus and be led astray.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"too-much-pessimism\">Too Much Pessimism <\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble\u2026 think about such things.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Philippians 4:8<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dwelling on fear, doubt, and negative thoughts can rob you of peace and trust in God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"1451\" width=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?w=850\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1168654\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.7059892284731685;width:562px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=384,544 384w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=640,907 640w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=768,1088 768w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=1024,1451 1024w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=1084,1536 1084w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=1445,2048 1445w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=1140,1616 1140w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/rebeccasimonfindingodeverydaybedblue.jpg?resize=1536,2177 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\">Let these truths sink in even deeper with books by Rebecca Simon.<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"justifying-sinful-choices\">Justifying Sinful Choices<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Galatians 6:7<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Making excuses for \u201csmall\u201d sins gradually dulls your spiritual awareness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"filling-your-life-with-distractions\">Filling Your Life with Distractions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Be still, and know that I am God.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Psalm 46:10<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>An overloaded schedule leaves little room to seek God and rest in His presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"measuring-yourself-against-others\">Measuring Yourself Against Others<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Galatians 6:4<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Comparing your journey to someone else\u2019s shifts your focus away from God\u2019s plan for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"874\" width=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?w=850\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1162190\" style=\"width:634px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg 2512w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?resize=384,328 384w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?resize=640,546 640w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?resize=768,655 768w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?resize=1024,874 1024w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?resize=1536,1311 1536w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?resize=2048,1748 2048w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/letgotrustgodrebbecasimonbookbed.jpg?resize=1140,973 1140w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\">For more God-centered encouragement, check out Rebecca Simon\u2019s books.<\/a><\/strong><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"ignoring-the-holy-spirit-s-nudges\">Ignoring the Holy Spirit\u2019s Nudges<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Today, if you hear His voice, do not harden your hearts.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Hebrews 3:15<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pushing away conviction makes it harder to recognize God\u2019s voice in your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"distancing-yourself-from-other-believers\">Distancing Yourself from Other Believers<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;Not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another.&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Hebrews 10:25<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Without a strong Christian community, your faith can weaken, and struggles can feel heavier.<strong> We can&#8217;t do this alone.<\/strong> We need community. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"chasing-worldy-success\">Chasing Worldy Success<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><em>&#8220;For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?&#8221;<\/em> \u2013 Mark 8:36<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prioritizing wealth, status, social media, over God will never bring true fulfillment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" height=\"1280\" width=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Rebbeca-Simon-Quote-Catalog-Memes-Oct-2025-29.png?w=850\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1161765\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.8003884237939;width:506px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Rebbeca-Simon-Quote-Catalog-Memes-Oct-2025-29.png 1080w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Rebbeca-Simon-Quote-Catalog-Memes-Oct-2025-29.png?resize=384,480 384w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Rebbeca-Simon-Quote-Catalog-Memes-Oct-2025-29.png?resize=640,800 640w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Rebbeca-Simon-Quote-Catalog-Memes-Oct-2025-29.png?resize=768,960 768w, https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Rebbeca-Simon-Quote-Catalog-Memes-Oct-2025-29.png?resize=1024,1280 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4pjx5WM\">Craving more reassurance? 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